1: Why You Suffer More Than You Need To
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In this episode of The For Good Life, Jaycee Spagrud explores why so much of our suffering isn’t caused by circumstances — but by how we relate to discomfort. Jaycee breaks down how the human brain is wired to avoid negative emotion, why that avoidance quietly drives self-sabotage, overeating, procrastination, and stalled growth, and how resisting what we feel creates unnecessary suffering. She introduces the 50/50 concept — the idea that half of the human emotional experience is meant to feel uncomfortable — and explains why learning to experience negative emotion instead of escaping it is the key to lasting change. This episode offers a grounded reframe for anyone who feels stuck, overwhelmed, or caught repeating patterns they don’t understand.
===== What We Explored This Episode
07:21 The 50/50 emotional experience of being human
11:49 How to respond differently when discomfort shows up
===== Memorable Quotes
“Discomfort isn’t the problem — avoiding it is.”
“Negative emotions are harmless. It’s what we do to escape them that creates suffering.”
“Growth requires discomfort. Change requires fear. And dreams require uncertainty.”
“Nothing has gone wrong when life feels hard.”
===== Connect With Jaycee
Jaycee Spagrud is a life coach who helps people build emotional capacity, self-trust, and follow-through by learning how to work with their mind instead of fighting it. After years of coaching, one thing became clear: most struggles — with food, habits, consistency, or self-sabotage — aren’t about discipline. They’re about how we respond to discomfort.
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